The Words that Follow “I am” Follow You:

Watch what you say to yourself daily.

The things you say to yourself habitually end up forming your identity.

When we say “I am X” our subconscious mind takes that statement as literal. 

So if you drop the milk and say “I am a loser” then your subconscious mind will throw up its hands and say “shoot, guess we’re a loser then” and reinforce that subconscious belief through behaviors that limit demonstrate that repeatedly to yourself. 

You become a self-fulfilling prophecy. 

Your job is 80% getting yourself into the mindset of success and 20% implementing through that mindset.

And the right mindset starts with what you say to yourself. 

Because when you’re in the right mindset you easily connect with your truth.

That you are free, powerful, loving, and joyous. 

And this is why affirmations can be so powerful!

They’re made up of purposeful “I am” statements that seed your subconscious mind with what you want to create. Here’s one that I use myself to get you started. 

Tweak it to fit you and what you’re trying to create in your life. 

Start each day by saying this, out loud, and with feeling and see how different things become. 


“I am a sexy, sensual, sensitive, kind, confident, loving, debt-free millionaire with abundant health and I contribute meaningfully to society. I give and receive love easily. I am in love with my life and myself. I overflow with absolute clarity of self-love and never settle for less than what I’m worth. I hold my shoulders back and head high and don’t care if anyone else approves. I want this because this is my path and who I fucking AM! I am committed to working on this every day for as long as it takes to achieve!”

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Hi! I’m Dr. Ash

I help women who come from challenging backgrounds that have conditioned them to put others first to live a “hell yes” life where they leave the shoulds behind. My clients learn to live a passion-filled, turned-on, lit-up life where everything is possible and to connect with their own intuitive genius.

To stop prioritizing other people’s opinions, to give themselves permission to go after their own desires, to be deeply self-expressed, self-confident, vibrant, and to release the limiting beliefs that have made them feel selfish or self-centered for putting themselves first in the past.

I have my Ph.D. in psychology, was the director of two multi-million dollar international coach training schools. I’m powerfully psychic and have over a decade of experience helping hundreds of people transform to feeling passionate, vibrant, fulfilled, and joyful.