New Years Resolutions Won’t Change Who You Are

Whatever you feel TODAY will be how you feel once you get more money, a divine partner, losing 20 pounds, meditating every day, or moving to a new country.

It’s one of the biggest problems with depending on making a big change in order to change your life.

You decide “I’m going to change X!” and think that the way you feel in your life is magically going to change along with it. 

But nope. That’s just not how it works.

If you don’t feel worthy, happy, or satisfied now, none of those changes, leaps, or resolutions will change the way you feel.

You’ll end up feeling the exact same way, even after you make the change.

You must change the way you feel NOW before you get it. Before you leap. Before you accomplish that goal.

You’ll Still Feel The Same When You Achieve X

Otherwise you’re going to get into new situation, and still find yourself miserable and wondering

 “Why am I still unhappy?”

“Why am I dissatisfied when I have what I wanted?”

“Why didn’t X make me feel better!”

Or you’ll just move the goal posts and tell yourself that you need to accomplish some NEW goal in order to finally be happy. Some new horizon must be reached before you can finally be satisfied. 


“Once I have Y, then I can be content”

Happiness is An Inside Job

You see, contentment, happiness, joy, love, peace, worthiness, and comfort all come from a core place within you.

They aren’t suddenly born from having more stuff.

They aren’t suddenly created by having more money.

Your life doesn’t suddenly get perfect when you meet the love of your life.

You don’t fix everything by moving to a new town.

Whatever issues you bring INTO the situation will still be there when you do whatever it is you’ve convinced yourself you must do to be happy.

That situation, that accomplishment, that achievement, that money, that thing is NOT going to give it to you.

You’ve got to get happy with yourself or you’ll never be happy with anything.” – Click to Tweet

Achievement Doesn’t Create Happiness

Until you realize this. You will constantly be on the hamster wheel of trying to achieve in order to be happy.

And that is ass-backwards.

It’s time to be happy so that you can finally achieve.

It might sound weird. But once you become happy, achievement becomes so much easier.

It’s so much easier to create from a place of inspiration and flow.

From a place of fulfillment and joy.

From a place of knowing that you have everything you need, and you’ve always had everything you need. 

You see, you can’t seek happiness externally because it’s not dependent on what you have, it’s only dependent on what’s going on inside.

And your insides aren’t magically going to change when you get that money, that car, that partner, or that job.


You’ve got to get happy with yourself or you’ll never be happy with anything.


Radical self-acceptance and self-trust are the topics we’ll be talking about in depth in The Abundance Revolution over the next few months.

If you’ve always changed by trying to criticize and put yourself down, yet felt like crap about it, I can show you another way.

It’s changing from a place of deep love and embracing all that you are.

No more self-doubt.

No more squeezing yourself into a tiny little package to make other people more comfortable.

No more trying to be what other people want you to be.

Just free untamed expression of exactly who you are.

Without guilt. Without shame. Without judgment.

This is the key to everything.

Join us now in The Abundance Revolution to learn how. 

If you’re ready for a ‘hell yes‘ life, join The Abundance Revolution TODAY!

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You’re living in a prison of your own making.

It’s time to change that forever.


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Hi! I’m Dr. Ash

I help women who come from challenging backgrounds that have conditioned them to put others first to live a “hell yes” life where they leave the shoulds behind. My clients learn to live a passion-filled, turned-on, lit-up life where everything is possible and to connect with their own intuitive genius.

To stop prioritizing other people’s opinions, to give themselves permission to go after their own desires, to be deeply self-expressed, self-confident, vibrant, and to release the limiting beliefs that have made them feel selfish or self-centered for putting themselves first in the past.

I have my Ph.D. in psychology, was the director of two multi-million dollar international coach training schools. She’s powerfully psychic and has over a decade of experience helping hundreds of people transform to feeling passionate, vibrant, fulfilled, and joyful.