I’ll give you what sounds like the most unhelpful advice ever:
Start where you are.
I fundamentally believe that you are not broken and nothing is wrong with you.
That inside of you, right at this moment, lies your highest and best self just itching to get out. Itching to be let loose on the world.
That the you that runs the successful business, that does all the hard things, that accomplishes whatever you set out to do exists RIGHT NOW inside of you.
The only thing that’s stopping you from being that is all the crap that’s piled up on top of that part of you.
All of your old beliefs, stories, experiences, traumas, and societal expectations.
- Those things that have told you that it’s too hard.
- That now isn’t the right time.
- That you should hold back.
- That other people will judge you.
- That you have to wait for permission.
- That you’re not enough.
That when you shed all of those layers, you can be exactly who and what you’re meant to be.
Authentically you. Right at this moment.
It’s not about earning worthiness.
It’s not about being more.
It’s not about being fearless.
It’s not about faking it till you make it.
It’s about removing everything that’s NOT you and letting the real you shine through so you can claim success on YOUR TERMS.