Client Question: Where do I start to make the changes that I want to make? How do I become successful? How do I become my best self? . Answer: I'll give you what sounds like the most unhelpful advice ever: . Start where you are. . I fundamentally believe that you are not broken and nothing is wrong with you. . That inside of you, right at this moment, lies your highest and best self just itching to get out. Itching to be let loose on the world. . That the you that runs the successful business, that does all the hard things, that accomplishes whatever you set out to do exists RIGHT NOW inside of you. . The only thing that's stopping you from being that is all the crap that's piled up on top of that part of you. . All of your old beliefs, stories, experiences, traumas, and societal expectations. . --> Those things that have told you that it's too hard. --> That now isn't the right time. --> That you should hold back. --> That other people will judge you. --> That you have to wait for permission. --> That you're not enough. . That when you shed all of those layers, you can be exactly who and what you're meant to be. . Authentically you. Right at this moment. . It's not about earning worthiness. . It's not about being more. . It's not about being fearless. . It's not about faking it till you make it. . It's about removing everything that's NOT you and letting the real you shine through so you can claim success on YOUR TERMS.

Most people don't realize that distraction from your next level comes in all kinds of flavors. . Something I see frequently in my clients is feeling that they need to do more personal development work before they're ready. . That they need to fix themselves. . Or be a better version of themselves before they're ready to do THE THING. . But the only way to do the thing is to actually DO it. . The need to keep preparing is a form of distraction and avoidance motivated by fear. . Fear of failure Fear of not being enough Fear of diving into the unknown . The truth is you already have what it takes to be successful now. . 💡You don't have to fix yourself. 💡You don't have to do more mindset work. 💡You don't have to wait until you're fearless 💡You don't have to wait until you have your shit together 💡You don't have to lose weight or be a better version of yourself . You just need to show up . And do THE THING. . You know, that thing that you keep avoiding? . That thing that makes you feel a little barfy 🤮 . Its ok to be scared. Do it scared. . It's okay to feel unprepared. Do it imperfectly. . Do it anyway. . I believe in you! . . . . #courage #couragecoach #mindsetcoach #mindsetmatters #successcoaching #fearoffailure #fearofsuccess #successcoach #overcomefear #entrepreneurmindset #entrepreneurmind #entrepreneurcoach #entrepreneurialmindset #entrepreneursuccess

The biggest battle you have to fight is with the voice in your own head... That voice in your head will often sound very reasonable. Logical even. It will come up wirh all kinds of "reasons" why you should stay where you are. 😩 stress 😩 Overwhelm 😩 Now isn't the right time Or it may even come at you with harshness you heard earlier in life. 🙁 You don't have what it takes 😕 Who do you think you are? 🙁 You're not good enough to do that Or perhaps it's repeating the fears that have been on a loop inside of you. 😫 It will never succeed 😫 If it doesn't work you'll look stupid 😫 Everryone is going to judge you No matter what its sayong, that voice is still just fear. And fear isn't a stop sign. Yet so many entrepreneurs believe that it is. And that's one of the reasons they stay stuck.

I heard a quote recently "cursing is a sign of a weak mind and a weaker character". Fuck that. Research actually shows that cursing may: ⭐reduce pain ⭐be a sign of honesty ⭐be a sign of high intelligence Do what makes you happy! Throw those fuckity fucks around like confetti if you want. #authenticitymatters #beyourself #overcomeselfdoubt